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Jul 14 / Nancy

Vin Terrill Steeple Fund, First Parish Steeple

The “Vincent Terrill Memorial Steeple Fund” was recently established.

Vin led many fundraisers and most prominent was a 1980s campaign to preserve his church steeple.

Monies raised through this fund will help to maintain the Steeple of First Parish Church.

Donations can be made through Paypal at PayPal.Me/FPChurchManchester or can be sent to First Parish Church P.O. Box 187 Manchester, MA 01944 (note that it is for the Vincent Terrill Memorial Steeple Fund).

Church Steeple Railings Restoration 2019/2020

The railings (balustrades) in the steeple of our church are in need of restoration.  The balustrades- at both the bell level and the carillon level- must be repaired.  At the carillon level, several spindles have rotted and become separated from the rails; at least one has fallen to the ground, further presenting a safety problem.  A contractor with expertise in steeples (American Steeple) has assessed the situation and provided an estimate for repairs.  On Monday, November 25, American Steeple brought in a large crane and removed all of the balustrades (four at the bell level, eight at the carillon level).  They will be restored in the coming months and reinstalled in the spring.  We will apply for, and hope to get approval for, funds from the Community Preservation Committee (CPC) to defray some of the cost.  We have been awarded funds from the CPC for restoration projects for our church on three previous occasions dating back to 2007.

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May 1 / Nancy

Minister Mark’s May Message


As I was leaving the Sanctuary after our Easter Sunday online Worship celebration, I remembered them. The orange cards.

It seems so long ago, especially under the circumstances of the last several weeks, but on the night before the official start of Lent – “Ash Wednesday” – we held our second annual “Fat Tuesday” celebration. There were masks and beads; pancakes for eating and ones for a “flipping” contest; a picture booth; members, friends and guests laughing, talking and praying.

And orange cards on every table.

For distribution the night of the Fat Tuesday celebration and throughout Lent, our Vitality committee had printed up a full supply of orange-colored cards which listed all of the Sunday and special Worship occasions through Easter Sunday; all of the classes being offered during that timeframe, such as “The Walk” and the Jordan Peterson series; our Wednesday evening Prayer and Meditation sessions; and the special events and social groups scheduled, such as the monthly Book Group and a “Spring by the Sea” Craft Fair.

As I left the Sanctuary Easter morning, I remembered those orange cards were still on the small table in the Narthex you pass as you enter the Sanctuary. So I took them. And since Easter Sunday they have sat on the meeting table in my office, where they will stay for awhile. Maybe even until the start of Lent next year.

They will stay there as a reminder – not of what could have been, but of what was.

A couple of days after Easter, when I read one of them again, it occurred to me. that of all the things listed on those orange cards, there were only two we weren’t able to fulfill in the midst of this pandemic – neither of which was in our control. One was the Early Risers concert scheduled for late March,

which we needed to postpone because of necessary restrictions on public gatherings, and the other was the annual MBTS Easter Sunrise Service at Singing Beach, cancelled for that very same reason.

Everything else on those cards – everything – we fulfilled. We came together to figure out when, where and how. And then we did it. We did it even though it wasn’t how we preferred to do it. We did it even though it was out of our comfort zone. We did it even though it wasn’t without glitches at times.

We did it. Together. For each other’s sake. And for God’s sake.

In that, we carried on the commitment of those who have come before us throughout the life of the Christian spiritual path – those who found a way to express, strengthen, and live out God’s call for our lives individually and as a spiritual community, in a variety of circumstances that were less than ideal.

I am sure it is not the first time this spiritual community has done that. And it will likely not be the last. But as God raised Jesus, God will continue to help us rise to the occasion. Whatever color the cards are.




Apr 14 / Nancy

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Apr 2 / Nancy

Minister Mark’s April Message

It is believed to be the phrase most used by Jesus in the Gospels:

“Do not be afraid”…

Around a dozen times (depending on the Bible translation), Jesus says some variation of this to his closest followers and others:

“Do not be afraid”, Jesus says when he calls the first disciples.

“Do not be afraid”, he says to his disciples as he gets ready to send them out on their own for the first time.

“Do not be afraid”, Jesus says to the women who come to tend to his body on Easter morning.

“Do not be afraid.”

I have seen and heard enough over the last few weeks to know that Jesus’ words are not the easiest to embrace right now. People – many people – are afraid right now.

Perhaps you are afraid right now.

If so, please be assured that you are not somehow being unChristian, unfaithful or spiritually lacking. Be assured that you are not dismissing or rejecting Jesus’ call. Because while the stories in the Gospels, and the Bible in general, are told from the perspective of particular instances at specific times, like all the best stories they are meant to speak to us in a much more general, universal way. They are meant to speak to us from the perspective of our common human condition.

And so while Jesus is encouraging the disciples and the women who came to tend to his body after his death (in truth, those women were also disciples, but that’s a conversation for another day), to not be afraid in those specific instances, those scenes are more about encouraging us to not be afraid in general. They are meant to tell us that from a spiritual perspective, it is one thing to be afraid at a particular time for a specific and valid reason. It is quite another to be afraid as a general way of being – as a consistent way of life. As a habit.

Jesus tells us, “Do not be afraid”, as a way of life because that way of being drains the life right out of us. As research has consistently demonstrated, fear as a habit negatively impacts the decision making ability and creativity we need to find solutions to our troubles, and also saps our emotional, spiritual and physical strength.

As it pertains to our current struggles with the Coronavirus, fear as a habit saps the very mental, emotional, spiritual and physical “immune systems” we need to overcome this pandemic with the least possible harm done. So while we should be “afraid” of the virus in a specific sense – take it as enough of a very real and serious concern to exercise appropriate, medically recommended precautions against – it will not serve us to live in constant fear. That kind of habitual fear leads to things like the spread of misinformation; the unnecessary hoarding of certain goods; states of anxiety and despair which actually lower our resistance to disease; and a sense of hopelessness which makes it more difficult for us to overcome this pandemic together as God’s people.

As we move through this time when the Coronavirus pandemic coincides with Holy Week and Easter, Jesus’ call to us is more important than ever. Let us answer that call by offering support, strength and encouragement to each other.

“Do not be afraid.”

Easter Blessings,



Mar 19 / Nancy

To College Students and Youth Wherever You Are:

I wanted to take a moment to reach out and see how you are doing these days. This time of the Coronavirus pandemic must be some combination of confusing, frustrating, or maybe even scary for you. The disruption of having your school, sports, music, theater, and social pursuits and interests restricted or put on hold completely for an uncertain amount of time has to be difficult to deal with.

My guess is that this is likely the worst large scale crisis you have ever been through in your lives. And I have no intention of being dishonest with you. I have spent the vast majority of my professional career working closely with college, high school and middle school students as a teacher, coach, administrator and counselor, and my experience has been that young people like you generally have pretty good “BS Detection” skills. So I will not test those skills by telling you this will end quickly, that few people will suffer, or that there will not be any long-term effects. I will also not be dishonest with you by saying you won’t experience any of those long-term effects. The truth is that I don’t know. No one does right now.

But none of that means you won’t be OK, or that there is nothing you can do to make things better for yourselves and others. Because the other thing I know about people your age from all those years working with you, especially during other times of crisis, is that you are smart, creative, kind, and much stronger and more resilient than you are given credit for at times.

So use those gifts now. My guess is you are already supporting each other through social media. If you are – keep going. If you aren’t – start. And look for ways to support others you may not have thought of or normally interact with who could really use a lift right now, even if you can’t do it face to face. Those who live alone or who are homeless. Veterans. Students in other countries who are going through the same thing you are. I am sure you can think of many other people and ways I have not, and you certainly have far better social media skills than I do to make some good things happen out there.

Remember – while we do not have a medical vaccine for the virus yet, we DO have some social, emotional, and mental vaccines for things like loneliness, discouragement and the struggle to find hope. One of those is social interaction, even if not in person. Another is service for the benefit of others. And another is spiritual support.

So whether you have had any involvement or contact with our church community or me before, or any spiritual community at all, please know that you can contact me at any time for any reason. I will be here to listen, offer guidance, pray, or whatever you feel you might need.

And even though you are among the groups at lesser risk, the data is now clear that you are not completely immune. So PLEASE be smart like I know you are and follow the guidelines issued by medical experts so that you stay healthy, and also so that you can do right by your families, friends and all of us.

You can reach me at any time by email at, or by phone or text at 908-477-5426.



Mark Boyea


First Parish Church

Mar 13 / Nancy

An Important Message From Mark

To the First Parish Church Community:

Last evening we received word from the Southern New England Conference of the United Church of Christ, of which we are a member, that in response to the continuing spread of the Coronavirus throughout this region and the country, they are requesting that all 600+ of their churches postpone their Worship services this Sunday and next (March 22).

Though I am not prone to overreaction, I believe we should comply with the Conference’s request. It is simply the right thing to do – right both for medical, but also for spiritual reasons.

We must never lose sight of the fact that while the Christian path is about our own individual spiritual growth, it is never just about that. It is, and always has been, about the common good. And so while it would be easy for us to say that there is no need to postpone Worship, or take any other measures recommended by medical experts and scientists, because the virus has not directly affected any of us, it would not be the most faithful thing to do.

According to Dr. Anthony Fauci, widely considered to be the nation’s leading expert on infectious diseases, what matters most now is what he calls “flattening” the peak of the virus’s spread so that it does not overwhelm our medical system’s capacity to treat and overcome it with the least possible harm and loss of life. That “flattening” is something that all of us can, and should do what we can to contribute to, especially those of us in the Christian community, as it is one of the ways for us to carry out Jesus’ call to “love our neighbor as ourselves” in this season of Lent.

Therefore, after consulting with Nancy Peterson, Moderator; John Round, Chair of Trustees; and John Feuerbach, Chair of Deacons, it has been determined that we will not hold public Worship this Sunday or next (March 22). We will however, conduct an “abridged” version of Worship that will be live-streamed at the usual time of 10am. Specific information on how you can access that, as well as how you can view it after the fact, will be sent either later today or tomorrow.

That “abridged” Worship time will consist of a Prelude from Herman Weiss, Pastoral Prayer, Scripture Reading (Matthew 23:1-4, 13-15, 23-28), Anthem from Herman Weiss and Rebecca Shrimpton, and a Message from me.

In addition, please know that we are at the point where it is not just Worship that needs to be taken into consideration. Therefore, and again with the guidance of lay leaders and for the sake of the common good, it has been determined that we will also be postponing all other “group” gatherings, at least through next Sunday, March 22. This includes meetings, classes, rehearsals, and unfortunately, the “Early Risers” concert being sponsored by our Missions Committee. We will reassess these parts of our community’s life the following week. We have also received word that the Open Door meal which we are schedule to sponsor next Wednesday has also been cancelled.

Regarding additional measures related to looking out for one another at this time, I have asked John Feuerbach to mobilize our Deacons for the task of keeping in regular contact with members of our congregation who live alone, or who have health issues which make them particularly vulnerable to the virus. Also, I strongly encourage you to contact the Church Office 978-526-7661 or me directly through email ( or cell (908-477-5426) for any pastoral visits or assistance you wish, so that I can respond directly, or through the assistance of our Deacons or Care Team.

Lastly, please keep in mind that along with the physical and emotional effects of this pandemic, there will likely be serious economic ones for those who are hourly workers or living paycheck to paycheck without paid sick leave, available day care for students who must stay home from school for a period of time, or adequate health care coverage. Along with your prayers, I encourage you to consider donations to food banks (like the Open Door), or other aid organizations for people in these circumstances.

The early Christian leader Paul tells the Christian community in Corinth during a time of great stress not to lose heart because their struggles will not last, and in that time of struggle is an opportunity for them to grow closer to being the kind of spiritual community that God calls them to be. Let us do the same – for each other and for the common good.


Rev. Dr. Mark Boyea


First Parish Church

Mar 3 / Nancy

Minister Mark’s March Message

“I have come one step away from everything. And here I stay, far from everything, one step away.”  Antonio Porchia 


In the quote above, taken from a book titled Voices, a slim collection of aphorisms that reflect the complexity, struggles, joys and paradoxes of human existence, Antonio Porchia seems to be asking us to consider how often we come close to important achievements or breakthroughs during our lives, but don’t take the one more step we need to get there – how close, yet so far we remain. Appropriately, Porchia doesn’t turn this thought into one of those all too common “you can do it if you want to” platitudes. My sense is that he understands things are frequently not so simple. He recognizes that there are often times when we may be one step away but our circumstances make that step unlikely or perhaps impossible in that time and place.

I wonder though, if rather than knowing we are one more step away, and then choosing not to, or being unable to take it, human existence is much more often characterized by not knowing we are one step away to begin with. I wonder at times how often we miss out on making things better for ourselves or others because we simply don’t realize – or believe – that we are only one more step away. One more step that is, as author Malcolm Gladwell puts it, the “tipping point”.

In this time when we struggle as a nation and world with serious and complex issues, it can be overwhelming to try and discern what we might do to make things better. Or maybe it’s even simpler than that for us. Perhaps our greatest concerns are what to do in terms of a relationship or career crossroads. Either way, what do our faith, the Bible, our tradition, and our leader – Jesus – tell us to do?

Take the step we can.

Not the easiest step. Not the most convenient step. Not the step everyone else is taking. The step we can take. And take that step knowing God will help us keep moving in the direction we need to go. Take that step knowing that as part of a spiritual community, we will walk with, lean on or be leaned on, even carry and be carried by each other along the way as well.

As we enter this season of Lent then, a season meant to move us to reflection and recommitment to the life journey Jesus walked and calls us to walk, let’s consider taking the steps – or even just the one step we can.

Because we might be just one step away.




Mar 1 / Nancy

Leader of Children and Youth Programs

First Parish Church Congregational, Manchester by the Sea MA


Under the general direction and supervision of the Minister, the Leader will reimagine and revitalize our programs for children and youth with the following primary tasks:

  1. Develop and lead the Middle and High School Youth Programs of the Church.
  2. Be responsible for development and choice of curriculum materials for church school for grades K-5, taking particular care to ensure that the materials are fresh, contemporary, and aligned with theological perspective of the Minister and adult Congregation.
  3. Recruit and supervise volunteer teachers for grades K-5 taking care to ensure that they receive sufficient training and support to enable them to be effective and work with high morale. The Leader will also be expected to teach individual classes when and if necessary for the effectiveness of the program.
  4. In collaboration with the parents, CE Committee, Vitality Committee and Minister, plan social or holiday group events attractive for this community and which help connect them to the broader Congregation.
  5. Take primary responsibility for outreach to families with children, paying particular attention to the opportunity to establish contact with those who are new to the community. More broadly, be responsible for maintaining the connection of the parents of children in the program to the program and the Congregation as a whole.
  6. Maintain and implement applicable health and safety policies in all programs, including Safe Church and CORI qualification as appropriate.

The successful candidate for this position will be expected to bring an entrepreneurial spirit, warmth, and enthusiasm to the program.  Formal training in religion or religious education is a plus but not a requirement.   This is initially envisioned as a part time position.  Hours can be flexible but will include Sunday mornings and participation in the general life of the church. Compensation is negotiable and will be commensurate with qualifications.  Exact starting date is negotiable but is intended to be early summer 2020 to provide for the launch of a revitalized program in September.  Background information regarding First Parish Church may be found at


Applicants are invited to submit resumes to the attention of the Office Manager:

First Parish Church Congregational

PO Box 187

Manchester, MA 01944


Mar 1 / Nancy

Jordan Peterson Discussion Group

The next (virtual) meeting of the  Jordan Peterson Discussion Group

will be at 7:30 pm Monday, May 18, 2020.

Our topic will be Lecture XV: Joseph and the Coat of Many Colors.  As always, the presentation will be self contained and no preparation is necessary, but you can of course view the full lecture here in advance:    You can also google Jordan Peterson Biblical XV transcript if you would prefer to read the lecture.
If you are not already on our email list, please contact Steve Carhart ( for a Zoom invitation.
We are very pleased that some folks that had difficulty attending earlier are now able to attend virtually.
If you have wondered what the group has been about but found it difficult to attend in person, please join us now!


Feb 17 / Nancy

Lenten Theme and Message Series 2020

Lenten Theme and Message Series 2020

We will be running these programs virtually going forward. More information will be posted this week.

Beginning March 1, join us each Sunday throughout the season of Lent as we explore this year’s theme, “Crossroads”. Each week we will explore a story from the Gospels of individuals or groups whose life was challenged or changed by their encounter with Jesus over the course of his ministry. We will also examine the choice or choices that encounter left them with going forward, and how those choices reflect the ones we are given to make in our time and place.


 During Lent, we will also be offering two weeknight opportunities for spiritual growth and exploration:

“The Walk”, based on the book of the same name by noted minister and author Adam Hamilton, will explore the major “pillars” of traveling the Christian spiritual path, such as Worship, Prayer and Service, each session focusing on a specific pillar. Please note you do not need to buy or have the book. Also, each meeting will largely be its own entity, so you are welcome to come to as many or as few of the four sessions as you wish.

Tuesdays: March 3, 10, 24 and 31

Time: 7:00-8:15 PM

Location: Chapel Conference Room

 “Prayer and Meditation” is an opportunity to come together for a time of quiet reflection, sharing of Scripture, and the offering of any prayer intentions that are on participants’ hearts and minds.

Wednesdays: March 4, 11, 25 and April 1

Time: 7:00-7:40 PM

Location: FPCC Sanctuary